Dennis, the husband, died early this morning. The bad thing, the difficult, uncomfortable, discouraging, sad thing is over and the good that was promised him is beginning. That’s the story that both of us have believed and we’re very happy to stick with it. A new beginning for him, made possible by Jesus Christ.
I love it that God did not want for any of his creation to be wasted. I love that he always planned a way for the imperfect to become perfect, and that the way had to be through relationship. It’s a precious thing to feel known, valued, and loved even when I haven’t earned it. Even more important, nothing on earth can take away or change what God has in mind for me. I love having the worldview of the one who made the world.
It’s a new beginning for me as well. I am a widow. A single. I’ve had 50 years of being otherwise, and I’m grateful for those years, and for being able to spend them with Dennis. There’s a lot to process here and I might not get around to doing that online. This post is a thank you to all who have followed our journey with Lewy Body Dementia. We learned a lot along the way. I will always have compassion for others who are experiencing this disease in any manner. Caregivers, feel free to reach out for support. I am on your side!
Hope in the Face of Dementia 
Shirley, I have followed your posts of this journey. I am sorry for your loss! I am relieved that Dennis is free. Yes, there will definitely be much to process and I hope you will be able to share that in time, it’s important for us caregivers and for those to come. God bless you for all you have endured. Your words of strength have helped.
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God’s wisdom and strength is so beyond us. You stood fast and stayed strong, following the path He set before you. God has wrapped Dennis in His arms and has freed him. May He comfort you moving forward.
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Dear Shirley—
Dennis is no longer suffering, thanks be to God. You have come through a hard trial and loss and have done so well, with love. I admire you so much.
Ron and I would like to come for Dennis’s service if possible. When you have made a plan, would you please let us know?
Thanks, love, and prayers—
Mar
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There will be a service on June 30 1 pm at the Wesleyan church. It will also be online. We’d love to have you come!
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So sorry to hear of this difficult loss, but I know The Father will comfort you in a way you’ve previously no experienced, and hold you close to His Heart. He has already welcomed Dennis home and they are getting acquainted in a beautiful way. Thank you for the transparent sharing of this painful journey. You’ve shown respect to your husband and have glorified the Lord as well. Blessings on your life.
Faith
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You have shown such strength and love through this journey. You never gave up , but remained committed to your marriage vows.
You have my deepest respect, and I thank you for being a wonderful example.
My prayers are with you now and in your future, that God be with you in your healing and in all your decisions . 🙏🏻
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My most dear Sister in Christ Jesus, precious Child of God! My prayers will continue for you always praising God for answering them. Much love and blessings, dear one.
Doris
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I thank God for the support and assurance of his will that comes through you. Thank you for praying, Doris! I’m having trouble with high blood pressure. Would you please pray for resolution of that problem?
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